Few decades back, gender biasness used to be practiced in our society on the verge of religion, cultures and customs. It is obvious from this fact that the concept of divorce was beyond applicable then. But today the world has changed a lot. Because of people awareness, they don't like to stay dominated. Everybody is searching for his/her own dignity. Voices have been raised in support of the child and woman rights and even the treaties gave been signed. Women are implying the same rights as men are.

Ever law discouraged the unconventional and multi marriage systems. Widow marriage has got the legal certification, families have accepted love marriages, intercast marriages and interracial marriage. These revolutions verify that marriage is absolutely a personal concern but along with the continuous revolution and changes we introduced divorce as well. But truly speaking, many have benefited from divorce by surpassing the mental and physical stress. Divorce, in the couple without any children and with the differences in thoughts and action, should be tale as normal. There is a probability of these two getting married to different individuals but then the existence of stepfamily is likely to be diminished, which of course is the positive aspect.

The psychological feeling of inferiority among the women and the superior feeling nourished among the men, has finally hit the bottom with the legal provision of dividing the wealth (dividend) possessed by the husband with the wife after the divorce. Divorce has now became a mean of defending owns dignity of course doesn't mean to run away from the duties and responsibilities as being a human.

In the situation when a conflict arises due to the violation of each other's rights between wife and husband and the situation does not seem to get any better even after undergoing certain compromising states, then up comes the need of getting divorced. This is an unanswered psychological question. Getting divorced even after having a baby can be seen both in new and old generations.

Children are the one who have to suffer because of divorce in the couple since divorce is not between the children and the parent, letting them suffer is against the basic rights. But the parents do not seem to care about what when it comers for their satisfaction and interest. On the other hand, the society diverged by modernization and industrialization, there is not any other family member also to take care of the children. The base of joint family is trembling. That is the reason why, whatever the consequences for these children today, will be same tomorrow. This future result in depression. They may get entangled, may involve in crimes. Some may even commit suicide.

So, actually it is better to get divorced rather than to continue the fallacious marital relationship, as such divorce is a social revolution and its main achievement is the approval of society towards the divorce. Those couples civilization for their convenience and the society accepting it, holds the prime responsibility to find out the measures to deduce the psychological damages amongst their children. First and fore mostly, parents are responsible for their children and should take the challenges first, having the law already approved from the husband for the wife, after getting divorced, the mothers also must take responsibility of the financial aspects of their children.

When parents are confirmed about the divorce, it seems better to inform children following things, as in case of divorcee parents of the western countries:

• To inform children regarding their separation before they actually start living in separate residence.
• To inform in presence of both husband and wife in order to ease the situation.
• To confirm the children that they are absolutely not the reason for their separation conflict is the root cause.
• To illustrate any good incident that may have occurred while they lived separately.
• To ask the children regarding their inner opinions.

Getting to know these facts, the children will generate a concept that they still have their parents and will express their own kind of queries. Such queries can be as follows:

• Who is leaving this house ?
• I will be staying with mom or dad ?
• Who will prepare my Tiffin for school ?
• Who will buy the uniform for the school and who will wash it ?
• Who will attend parent's meetings at school ?
• Who will tale me out during vacation ?
• Who will take me for picnic ?
• Whether I can visit my maternal uncle's house or not ?

All these queries made by the children seem to have seeking the necessary attentions towards their family, social, educational, financial, and psychological aspects. As such, it seems the prior responsibility of the parents is to take care of their children until and unless they become mature enough to live on their own.